It's Her or Me

With both Cheyann and Lynn attempting "adulting" in their own way now,  life continues to be full of interesting challenges, but here is the latest: I had been working with Lynn on a plan to complete 3 important life goals  - school, job and health insurance - and as a motivator suggested that if she could complete them all by Thanksgiving then we could potentially arrange for her to reconnect with the nephew she has been really wanting to see again - it's been almost a year now and the two had a very close connection. But my husband and son are both still so angry that they can't see clear and have made it known that if she shows up for Thanksgiving then they won't be there. Deep sigh.